In Paul’s letter to the Greek church in Philippi, Paul feels obligated to highlight the ministry of Epaphroditus, a guy sent to Paul from that church. Paul praises him saying:
I have thought it necessary to send to you Epaphroditus my brother and fellow worker and fellow soldier, and your messenger and minister to my need” (Phil 2: 25).
Paul goes out of his way to showcase Epaphroditus. What is a bit strange is why he would have to do that since Epaphroditus had come from Philippi. They would know him already.
But the reason Paul has to reassure the Philippians about Epaphroditus is because something happened.
He got sick.
Paul explained it to the Philippians:
Indeed he was ill, near to death. But God had mercy on him, and not only on him but on me also, lest I should have sorrow upon sorrow. I am the more eager to send him, therefore, that you may rejoice at seeing him again, and that I may be less anxious. (Phil 2:27-28)
So the fact was that Epaphroditus had failed, sort of.
Yes, he delivered the money to Paul (see Phil 4:18). But when Epaphroditus got sick, he wasn’t able to assist Paul, and instead he needed to be assisted by Paul.
The fact is, when people are shown to be weak— a health breakdown, a mental breakdown, a lack of skills, a lack of capacity, —- then all of us in the cynicism of our flesh will look down on them a little bit.
When it comes to weakness in others we can have a critical spirit.
Imagine the conversation near the back door of First Church of Philippi.
‘Oh yeah… Epaphroditus… We paid all his expenses and sent him on the big trip from Greece to Rome —- I’d love to go to Rome—- and then when he got there, he said he was sick and couldn’t come home. Wow… Rome would be a great place to be sick in….. I wonder how sick he really was? Sounds like a nice gig if you can get it. Why did we send him if he couldn’t even help Paul out. That was a waste of money. We should’ve sent someone else…..’
And on and on. You know how it goes.
The Philippians were a church that had a tendency to be proud of their strength. They needed to have the mind of Christ, in order to be humble (Phil 2:5). They needed to be reminded of the worth and value of godly servants in the church who were faithfully doing their jobs through great personal trial. The Philippians needed to be reminded to show some grace toward Epaphroditus.
So just in case the Philippians were missing the point, Paul is explicit in verse 29:
“So receive him in the Lord with all joy, and honor such men.”
The three takeaways are these:
- When we stop expecting leaders to be supermen, then we will stop being surprised and offended when they fail us.
- When we rejoice at leaders of proven worth and sacrificial service, we will be in a better position to distinguish who the faithful ministers are from all of the dogs and enemies of the cross.
- When we honor such men, even our honor is framed by grace. Which is just as it should be.
Also you might want to check out the 9Marks Journal on Pastoral Burnout, and the podcast on the same topic.
